On December 17th my life drastically changed forever. I had no choice but to kick out my husband, file a police report and start rebuilding the pieces. I am being as amicable as possible, which means I'm giving him everything his family gifted us and everything he has purchased for the house. I am also giving him most of the heavy furniture because I am tiny and need to be independent. I also move every three years or so for work. I could throw him through the ringer but I'm not doing that because he is the Father of my two youngest Children and they just adore him. Instead, I'm creating this and asking others to help me so I can be my best and continue helping others. It really does take a Village and right now that is what I need, my Village.