Earlier this year, my wife filed papers to divorce me. At the same time she and her attorney placed a domestic violence restraining order on me as a tactic (according to my attorney). There was no violence from me, but she was able to obtain one by secretly recording me when we would argue. I said some words and called her names which were not appropriate. She would do the same, but not when she was recording me. Suffice it to say, but I was forced out of my home and was not able to see my children (4&5 at the time) for almost 60 days as I waited for the court hearing. Ultimately, the charges were dropped as the judge did not see a reason for the DVRO and granted Joint legal custody of the kids so that I could see them every other weekend. During the Court hearing